cookies, flash detect, modify form & upload

I would like to take the version of the file upload that I already have and integrate it so an email is sent automatically to let me know that a file has been uploaded etc... also integrate it with a form so a message can be sent from the sender along with their email etc.. (I have a form to start from also) Also would like flash detect that works with all browers( that detects if they have the newest version 7) if not a window will pop up asking them if they want to be redirected...(but this will open a new window, so my page stays in background) ALSO: I already have an alert window, if it could be modified to have a "do not display this dialog again" option...so would have to use cookies...or session.. also would like to throw in an autoresponder when an email is sent to me confirming we will get to their email as soon as possible... the web site is a small business, but is so small it is like my personal web site... [login to view URL] ## Deliverables 1) Complete and fully-functional working program(s) in executable form as well as complete source code of all work done. 2) Deliverables must be in ready-to-run condition, as follows (depending on the nature of the deliverables): a) For web sites or other server-side deliverables intended to only ever exist in one place in the Buyer's environment--Deliverables must be installed by the Seller in ready-to-run condition in the Buyer's environment. b) For all others including desktop software or software the buyer intends to distribute: A software installation package that will install the software in ready-to-run condition on the platform(s) specified in this bid request. 3) All deliverables will be considered "work made for hire" under U.S. Copyright law. Buyer will receive exclusive and complete copyrights to all work purchased. (No GPL, GNU, 3rd party components, etc. unless all copyright ramifications are explained AND AGREED TO by the buyer on the site per the coder's Seller Legal Agreement). ## Platform mainly netscape, mozilla, IE, safari, and opera..