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DISCIPLINE IS A NICE WORD
Discipline makes the child aware of what is right and wrong in thought, word, and deed as well as what is beneficial and harmful. It makes the child understand the standard the standards and morals of the society in which he lives. It teaches him that he does not exist by himself and that he has to respect the rights and wishes of others.
A child needs to be disciplined not because to control his freedom of action but first, in order to guarantee his safety and health as well as the peace of mind of the people surrounding the child, second to correct his mistakes before they become bad habits and last to prepare him to assume responsibility for his actions.
Discipline is best started at an early age, otherwise the child not yet in full control of his movements not aware of the consequences of his actions, may come to harm or bring harm to others.
The child is naturally active and inquisitve. He moves a lot likes to poke around. This may lead to a number of delightful discoveries as well as a few mishaps. But as his experiences accumulate and he sees the effect of his little adventures and misadventures on those around him, he realizes that there ought to be limits to his actions. He achieves self-discipline.
Learning discipline starts at around the age of two, as soon as the child gasps some of the things you say and do. At this point he can be taught some do's and don'ts, for example for instance a toilet training should be underway.
The child does not learn discipline instantaneously. He should be given time to learn the rules and enough practice to observe them. He should be encouraged to ask questions about these rules so he will understand why they are necessary. It is easier for him to follow rules he finds reasonable.
Attitude towards a child on the matter of discipline determines the kind of parent-child relationship will be shared. It affects the child view of parent or guardian as well as his parent's attitude even if these are not openly expressed.
Overprotective or overly strict parents watch the child constantly and set many limitations on his behavior. They make the child feel that he is not to be trusted. This can lead to resentment or rebellion and may lead to loss of confidence in himself making him overly dependent. It makes difficult for the child to decide for himself whether his behavior is right or wrong.
On the other hand, parents who are too permissive create the impression that they do not care for the child, making the child feel that he is not loved or cherished. Such a child may grow up with very low self-esteem and does not trust himself. He finds it difficult to decide for himself and change his mind easily. He is not able to develop self-discipline.
Rewards or incentives for good behavior are very gratifying to a child. They have a positive effect on his behavior making him behave properly rather than deter him from misbehaving. The reward need not be material. Praise, attention, hugs and kisses are more satisfying to the child because they assure him that he is loved and valued his efforts. Be sure the child knows exactly what he is being rewarded for and take notice when he is behaving well and encourage the child to continue doing so.
As continued good behavior becomes a pattern, rewards will no longer be necessary. Besidesm the child must also learn that doing good is not always rewarded.
