Matrimonial site

I want to develop a website for online matrimonial. The website must be having features like the following websites: [login to view URL] [login to view URL] [login to view URL] It also has to be integrated with a shopping cart preferably oscommerce. It should have the facility to add countries, religion, caste, community, region, see who have signed up and created a profile, accept the profiles before they go online and charge for various things like bold listing, featured listing and others. Design for the logo can be left as a blue pic on the left corner. There should also be banner place for all the pages. The website must be real fast. I should also be able to offer them other services like information on flower decorators, caterars, etc., Please note:The scripts should not be copied from other sites who offer scripts for free or a charge.